Separation and divorce.

[LOUIE]

at the early stages of this at the moment, real pain...

she suggested i had the nippers over the bankholiday, no problem picking them up in the morning...
and then had a face on her when i said i wouldnt be here next weekend as im off to the lakes, "will you still be here was the reply i got, o yes as ive told work i cant go back till after it!""
silly bitch!!

[Dermot]

Well here we go again!

Case is listed again for the High Court appeals next week 10/11/12th Nov. I'm told it should be either heard or settled this time out, but I've been to the trough too many times at this stage and am now deeply cynical. Cannot be helped I suppose.

Property prices have pretty much collapased here in Ireland, so wealth wise the pot is now much much smaller than it was. On top of all that the costs have escalated so much that I may be forced to sell the RS I think my side of the legal costs may be c. €25,000. It's a complete ballbreaker.

I'll report back late next week. Wish me luck

[vinny]

good luck dermot, hope you get it sorted this time and keep the rs

[Mogsmex]

Good luck Dermot, I got my decree absolute a couple of months ago and we split in 2005

youll get there in the end

[bigjohnie]

good luck dermot

[GrahamT666]

I was lucky with my divorce, 3 teenage kids, it was more of a "it's not working anymore" thing and we basically went our seperate ways, around the same time, after 24 years in the RAF, i was offered redundancy, this gave me the money to buy her half of the family home, clear all the debt and buy and build my RS, kids were given the choice once she had got accomodation and the 3 of them voted to stay with me. 6 years later, got a reasonably good job, oldest son married with his own house, a lovely daughter-in-law, my first grandchild due in march, and the other 2 of mine working and still at home. RS is built and been seen by a few of you at Lakes 2009, around 6 months after we split, my ex met someone else and as they seemed to be in a rush to get hitched, she filed for divorce and paid for it, happy days, didna cost me a dime.

Graham

[RS2000EXPRESS]

All the very best of luck and I hope you manage to keep your RS.

Tim.

[wiggyrs]

All the best with it Dermot, hope you keep the RS

[Dermot]

Thanks Gents.

Believe it or not this thread gives me a lot of comfort and encouragement. I am in your debt.

[Dermot]

This just gets better and better.

I've now been informed that my Barrister cannot attend. Apparently we now have to get a new one and brief them in time for Wednesday morning!!! I'm less than confidant that's even possible. Even if it is how could a new person know the nuances of a complex case? One thing is for sure - the Barrister who has let me down last minute cannot expect much in payment for their efforts.

You really couldn't make this shit up.

Thankfully I have the kids this w/e, which will keep me sane.

[ebj60t]

Jeez, what a friggin' nightmare, can only say hope this gets sorted soon.

[Dermot]

Update:

We eventually engaged the services of a back up Barrister. Confirmed and will be briefed
in time. He's getting a hefty box of files delivered tomorrow.

Maybe you heard of him, as it seems he's quite famous. His name is:-

Miguel Sanchez/Lionel Hutz

[Mark P]

Am going through it to but she has come back for the 5th time in a month to finally try and work things out realy hope we can been together for 21 years 2 kids who are on my side but we not married and have council house but joint tenants neither can get the other out she met a bloke she went to school with on facebook rest is history but at least she wants to see if we can sort it out with some councilling fingers xed we can as i still love her to bits

[pushrod]

Hope thing go well
I have a sister who is 'going out' with a divorced guy.
Both him and his ex seem good people, just didn't work out.
Hope it works out for you.

[escort new boy]

divorce is a shit thing, ask my old man. (Rs new boy)
Its about trust. A Couple of years on i trust one person. My Dad